MENYAMBUNG KEMBALI PERSAHABATAN

When i look back in 2002.
I had a close friend named, MEIDY.
We met thru class (Diploma).
She was much older than me, i was 18yo (back then) and she was 28yo.

She'd worked for accounting company in Menado, and here she'd been working as a cleaner.
I dont know what happened, but everyday when we met her in the class, we used to laugh at her, as she's so naive, kinda urban girl, and silly....

Thats why nearly all of Indo people in my class used to bully her...
But she'd never showed her emotions. So we didnt know if she's angry or not. What she did was just laugh or sometimes she'd just become numb.

Sometimes when my 'mature minded' came, i would love to sit there and talk with her just about anything, whereas my friends'd just go and didnt wanna talk to her.

Ok, as the time went by, we developed our friendship and we became really good friends (with Ie Wen). In 2003, we even went to SNOWY MOUNTAIN together with some other friends....

We used to go to mall or sit somewhere (cafes or restaus) with her...and i used to go to her place nearly every week to just talk and play or swimming hehehe coz there's a swimming pool in her apartment.
Mid 2004, she got married with Tuhin (bangladeshi guy) which we have known since 2003 when we went to SNOWY....He's a great guy, hard worker. But lots of my friends didnt want her to go out with Tuhin just simply becoz he's Bangladeshi. Ewwww......for me, no problemo...as long as Meidy's happy with him, just go ahead! thats what i used to say.

In 2004, something happened. We wanted different things and i thought there's no connections at all between me and her. And then i decided not to contact her anymore and even changed my number too. And she'd been trying to contact me...and finally we lost contact. Not in touch anymore.


It's early 2007, ( i dont know why) i found her number again...and then i tried to contact her...
And we 're talking on the phone for nearly an hour. She's a bit nervous at the begginning and she didnt seem to talk to me anymore, but again, i tried my best to rebuild our friendship and started to talk about this and that, about our lifes in the past years (oh she's got a beautiful son by the way, named .*i forgot* i call him POW POW) He's 1.5yo. Yeah, we're talking on the phone...and try let the past and all the negativity go...so that we can be friends.

We 're talking few times on the phone....and then decided to meet.
First time was in January 2007, but it didnt happen as i had to postpone that as i had something on that day. So it was yesterday after went to the doctor. I met her at her place, got to meet her Hubby (TUhin) and Son (Powpow)....They're all great and im glad that they've been well too...

I even got some souvenirs from Bangladesh and Manado. They went to Bangladesh end of last year and Manado in February this year.

Im incredebly happy that we met again AT LAST. .....

Thanks MEY!!